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Hi guys, I'm 18 years old, I live in France, and a few months ago on TikTok, I think everyone saw that black pill and looksmaxing trend. I locked myself into this matrix that I both love and hate at the same time. This feeling is strange, but it's been 1 year since I got my diploma, and since then I do nothing with my days.

More and more, I think that this life is not made for men like me. Nobody wants me, no woman, no job, and yet I even applied to the most time-consuming jobs, McDonald's, Burger King, all that, with no real results.

On top of that, I don't leave my house, I barely see anyone, I avoid my family, I isolate myself, I can't find the motivation to get off my ass. I want to get off my ass, become better, and have a better mindset, but unfortunately I can't do it.

I think I'm ugly, short, I'm 5'7, fat, nobody likes me. I'm asking for help to find the joy of living again, please guys.

Have a good day.
 

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Hi guys, I'm 18 years old, I live in France, and a few months ago on TikTok, I think everyone saw that black pill and looksmaxing trend. I locked myself into this matrix that I both love and hate at the same time. This feeling is strange, but it's been 1 year since I got my diploma, and since then I do nothing with my days.

More and more, I think that this life is not made for men like me. Nobody wants me, no woman, no job, and yet I even applied to the most time-consuming jobs, McDonald's, Burger King, all that, with no real results.

On top of that, I don't leave my house, I barely see anyone, I avoid my family, I isolate myself, I can't find the motivation to get off my ass. I want to get off my ass, become better, and have a better mindset, but unfortunately I can't do it.

I think I'm ugly, short, I'm 5'7, fat, nobody likes me. I'm asking for help to find the joy of living again, please guys.

Have a good day.
drugs
 

Telmisartan

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Hi guys, I'm 18 years old, I live in France, and a few months ago on TikTok, I think everyone saw that black pill and looksmaxing trend. I locked myself into this matrix that I both love and hate at the same time. This feeling is strange, but it's been 1 year since I got my diploma, and since then I do nothing with my days.

More and more, I think that this life is not made for men like me. Nobody wants me, no woman, no job, and yet I even applied to the most time-consuming jobs, McDonald's, Burger King, all that, with no real results.

On top of that, I don't leave my house, I barely see anyone, I avoid my family, I isolate myself, I can't find the motivation to get off my ass. I want to get off my ass, become better, and have a better mindset, but unfortunately I can't do it.

I think I'm ugly, short, I'm 5'7, fat, nobody likes me. I'm asking for help to find the joy of living again, please guys.

Have a good day.
Reta and heroin trust bro
 

Skulloute

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Hi guys, I'm 18 years old, I live in France, and a few months ago on TikTok, I think everyone saw that black pill and looksmaxing trend. I locked myself into this matrix that I both love and hate at the same time. This feeling is strange, but it's been 1 year since I got my diploma, and since then I do nothing with my days.

More and more, I think that this life is not made for men like me. Nobody wants me, no woman, no job, and yet I even applied to the most time-consuming jobs, McDonald's, Burger King, all that, with no real results.

On top of that, I don't leave my house, I barely see anyone, I avoid my family, I isolate myself, I can't find the motivation to get off my ass. I want to get off my ass, become better, and have a better mindset, but unfortunately I can't do it.

I think I'm ugly, short, I'm 5'7, fat, nobody likes me. I'm asking for help to find the joy of living again, please guys.

Have a good day.
Just be patient
 

VelocityAnt

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Diogenesmaxing:cage:, and for the happiness side idk, we all seek it but can't really think that living a more "normal" will lead to it, dissociation from normies and shi. But maybe this is false or true idk.

Tomorrow gobble up allat of complex carbs with some simple carbs with coffee and hopes that it makes the world colorful, did that and it kinda works sometimes.

In the eyes of a child maybe we'll find it better than dronemaxxing:cage:.
 
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Diogenesmaxing:cage:, and for the happiness side idk, we all seek it but can't really think that living a more "normal" will lead to it, dissociation from normies and shi. But maybe this is false or true idk.

Tomorrow gobble up allat of complex carbs with some simple carbs with coffee and hopes that it makes the world colorful, did that and it kinda works sometimes.

In the eyes of a child maybe we'll find it better than dronemaxxing:cage:.
I get what you mean. I think I locked myself too much inside my own head and into all that looksmaxing, black pill stuff, etc. In the end it just makes me feel worse more than anything else.

I'm going to try making small changes first, going outside a bit, eating better, seeing people, because staying inside doing nothing is destroying me mentally.

And yeah, maybe we're looking too far for something that is simpler than we think.
 

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Thanks for the advice, but I already have a hobby I've had for almost 10 years: video games. I know it might seem a bit childish.
Dont worry, i also play video games — a lot.

But try to find a hobby outdoors, something to keep your body and mind active, and after it you will also have a good night’s rest because of how tired u might be, it could be something as simple as running, playing a sport, going outside, treat yourself as a liability first, doesn’t matter if you’re lazy just do it.
 

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