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nettspend

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me and this girl used to talk on and off, out of nowhere we probably stopped talking for like 6 months because she left my school, the other day I texted her just asking what shes been up to, we started a conversation and we just kept on texting, we were then going to hangout that night but I had to cancel because I was going to a girls like sweet 16 that was invite only so she wouldn't have been able to come with, so then we just stopped talking and she tried texting me like a few days later but I was drunk asf and I just started making fun of her cuz I was with my friends and I wanted validation, and she left me on opened and now I lwk don't know what to do because she turned her location off for me and stuff and she just stopped texting im on opened for 3 days and I don't want to text her out of the blue and seem desperate or smth

what do I do to recover from this or is it over with her
 

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sorry bro i only fuck girls i don't actually understand them will have to leave this to the rest of the forum
 

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me and this girl used to talk on and off, out of nowhere we probably stopped talking for like 6 months because she left my school, the other day I texted her just asking what shes been up to, we started a conversation and we just kept on texting, we were then going to hangout that night but I had to cancel because I was going to a girls like sweet 16 that was invite only so she wouldn't have been able to come with, so then we just stopped talking and she tried texting me like a few days later but I was drunk asf and I just started making fun of her cuz I was with my friends and I wanted validation, and she left me on opened and now I lwk don't know what to do because she turned her location off for me and stuff and she just stopped texting im on opened for 3 days and I don't want to text her out of the blue and seem desperate or smth

what do I do to recover from this or is it over with her
im amazed at how you manager to fuck this up gng, u had it in the bag. Fuck validation puh is puh.
 
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me and this girl used to talk on and off, out of nowhere we probably stopped talking for like 6 months because she left my school, the other day I texted her just asking what shes been up to, we started a conversation and we just kept on texting, we were then going to hangout that night but I had to cancel because I was going to a girls like sweet 16 that was invite only so she wouldn't have been able to come with, so then we just stopped talking and she tried texting me like a few days later but I was drunk asf and I just started making fun of her cuz I was with my friends and I wanted validation, and she left me on opened and now I lwk don't know what to do because she turned her location off for me and stuff and she just stopped texting im on opened for 3 days and I don't want to text her out of the blue and seem desperate or smth

what do I do to recover from this or is it over with her
do you seriously think there are girls here?
 

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me and this girl used to talk on and off, out of nowhere we probably stopped talking for like 6 months because she left my school, the other day I texted her just asking what shes been up to, we started a conversation and we just kept on texting, we were then going to hangout that night but I had to cancel because I was going to a girls like sweet 16 that was invite only so she wouldn't have been able to come with, so then we just stopped talking and she tried texting me like a few days later but I was drunk asf and I just started making fun of her cuz I was with my friends and I wanted validation, and she left me on opened and now I lwk don't know what to do because she turned her location off for me and stuff and she just stopped texting im on opened for 3 days and I don't want to text her out of the blue and seem desperate or smth

what do I do to recover from this or is it over with her
Pretty relatable

made fun of some bitch too when I was drunk. Step one is she needs to find you attractive, step 2 is I usually just like an old ig post (either she dms or just wait) if she posts an ig story a few days later just comment on it and usually that gets a conversation going.
 

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do you seriously think there are girls here?
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im amazed at how you manager to fuck this up gng, u had it in the bag. Fuck validation puh is puh.
so nothing i can do?
do you seriously think there are girls here?
nigga what im asking for other dudes advice on what to do with her
Pretty relatable

made fun of some bitch too when I was drunk. Step one is she needs to find you attractive, step 2 is I usually just like an old ig post (either she dms or just wait) if she posts an ig story a few days later just comment on it and usually that gets a conversation going.
I'm banned on IG I've been texting her over messages
 

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I'm banned on IG I've been texting her over messages
kinda fucked

just randomly messaging her is weird and she prob wont respond, you need an alternative way to make it seem like you're still interested in her

girls need validation, make something up
 

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kinda fucked

just randomly messaging her is weird and she prob wont respond, you need an alternative way to make it seem you're still interested in her

girls need validation, make something up
bro I have her on snap but I don't have my phone so if I message her it's going to say "Jax is using Snapchat for the web" and I'm gonna look like a freak + it would be so random for me to text her there
 

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bro I have her on snap but I don't have my phone so if I message her it's going to say "Jax is using Snapchat for the web" and I'm gonna look like a freak + it would be so random for me to text her there
Jax
 

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not the time nigga I'm deadass tripping over this hoe shes so bad
didnt know u were a lesbian

just say some shit like “sorry i was drunk i thought u were my hb trolling me acting like a girl again” and make it sound like a friend of urs made a fake acc/number before about another girl

this is pure fantasy idk id this would work bro, dont use my advice
 

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bro I have her on snap but I don't have my phone so if I message her it's going to say "Jax is using Snapchat for the web" and I'm gonna look like a freak + it would be so random for me to text her there
just send a random snap when you have your phone

risk it for the biscuit, you're fucked either way
 

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me and this girl used to talk on and off, out of nowhere we probably stopped talking for like 6 months because she left my school, the other day I texted her just asking what shes been up to, we started a conversation and we just kept on texting, we were then going to hangout that night but I had to cancel because I was going to a girls like sweet 16 that was invite only so she wouldn't have been able to come with, so then we just stopped talking and she tried texting me like a few days later but I was drunk asf and I just started making fun of her cuz I was with my friends and I wanted validation, and she left me on opened and now I lwk don't know what to do because she turned her location off for me and stuff and she just stopped texting im on opened for 3 days and I don't want to text her out of the blue and seem desperate or smth

what do I do to recover from this or is it over with her
Your fault
 

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didnt know u were a lesbian

just say some shit like “sorry i was drunk i thought u were my hb trolling me acting like a girl again” and make it sound like a friend of urs made a fake acc/number before about another girl

this is pure fantasy idk id this would work bro, dont use my advice
Sorry thought you were my hb trolling me as a girl again
:tyson:
 

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Sorry thought you were my hb trolling me as a girl again
:tyson:
i trolled my friend before making a fake acc of a girl on snapchat

got this nigga to go outside and i followed behind him since i was sleeping over and he thought we were going on a “2 man”, then i sent pictures of him from the girl acc and he started tweaking, i thought that was my end.
 

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i trolled my friend before making a fake acc of a girl on snapchat

got this nigga to go outside and i followed behind him since i was sleeping over and he thought we were going on a “2 man”, then i sent pictures of him from the girl acc and he started tweaking, i thought that was my end.
did he not notice the abnormally low snap score?
 

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me and this girl used to talk on and off, out of nowhere we probably stopped talking for like 6 months because she left my school, the other day I texted her just asking what shes been up to, we started a conversation and we just kept on texting, we were then going to hangout that night but I had to cancel because I was going to a girls like sweet 16 that was invite only so she wouldn't have been able to come with, so then we just stopped talking and she tried texting me like a few days later but I was drunk asf and I just started making fun of her cuz I was with my friends and I wanted validation, and she left me on opened and now I lwk don't know what to do because she turned her location off for me and stuff and she just stopped texting im on opened for 3 days and I don't want to text her out of the blue and seem desperate or smth

what do I do to recover from this or is it over with her
it might be over

just let her go
 

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well thats the issue mate idk what to text her

I made fun of her and was like laughing and she left me on opened
look in your area for volunteer opportunities on facebook, etc.. then text her asking if she wants to volunteer with you

best way to start talking to her again, make sure you can drive her home, or walk home
 

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look in your area for volunteer opportunities on facebook, etc.. then text her asking if she wants to volunteer with you

best way to start talking to her again, make sure you can drive her home, or walk home
or try to hang out with her after, get food
 

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look in your area for volunteer opportunities on facebook, etc.. then text her asking if she wants to volunteer with you

best way to start talking to her again, make sure you can drive her home, or walk home
bro she dgaf abt volunteering she gets high everyday
 

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me and this girl used to talk on and off, out of nowhere we probably stopped talking for like 6 months because she left my school, the other day I texted her just asking what shes been up to, we started a conversation and we just kept on texting, we were then going to hangout that night but I had to cancel because I was going to a girls like sweet 16 that was invite only so she wouldn't have been able to come with, so then we just stopped talking and she tried texting me like a few days later but I was drunk asf and I just started making fun of her cuz I was with my friends and I wanted validation, and she left me on opened and now I lwk don't know what to do because she turned her location off for me and stuff and she just stopped texting im on opened for 3 days and I don't want to text her out of the blue and seem desperate or smth

what do I do to recover from this or is it over with her
Unfortunately you gotta apologize Abt making fun of her, only way bc she'll remember it otherwise
 

goyboy.hero

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nah I js need to find leverage to start a Convo, apologizing just makes me look desperate asf and like a simp
Personally I'd wait 2-3 weeks and start a convo. Just let her forget Abt it and release her anger, if you wanna talk to her quicker than apologizd
 

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me and this girl used to talk on and off, out of nowhere we probably stopped talking for like 6 months because she left my school, the other day I texted her just asking what shes been up to, we started a conversation and we just kept on texting, we were then going to hangout that night but I had to cancel because I was going to a girls like sweet 16 that was invite only so she wouldn't have been able to come with, so then we just stopped talking and she tried texting me like a few days later but I was drunk asf and I just started making fun of her cuz I was with my friends and I wanted validation, and she left me on opened and now I lwk don't know what to do because she turned her location off for me and stuff and she just stopped texting im on opened for 3 days and I don't want to text her out of the blue and seem desperate or smth

what do I do to recover from this or is it over with her
Best place oat to seek girl advice, personally I js leave if im not finna hit soon
 

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