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Lately since the new school year started and i went to another class with different people i made a decision to be more social and hyperactive.
Well my personality quite improved a lot,i can make conversations freely on every subject or just jokes,but it is mot interesting to me,people can laugh at my jokes or just something funny that i say but to me im saying completely nonsense, but its not coming natural from the moment, i have to think what i say most of the times because deep in the heart im a fucking introvert and with time you get annoyed of faking it,your new personality.
But yup you can change your personality but not entirely, for example you will never have the charisma of a gifted person that is towards talking a lot
 
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Lately since the new school year started and i went to another class with different people i made a decision to be more social and hyperactive.
Well my personality quite improved a lot,i can make conversations freely on every subject or just jokes,but it is mot interesting to me,people can laugh at my jokes or just something funny that i say but to me im saying completely nonsense, but its not coming natural from the moment, i have to think what i say most of the times because deep in the heart im a fucking introvert and with time you get annoyed of faking it,your new personality.
But yup you can change your personality but not entirely, for example you will never have the charisma of a gifted person that is towards talking a lot
honestly i used to be a full introvert now i would say i like hanging out with ppl more then i did in the past but i will say i still do feel sometimes that something is off but yes being not natrually gifted with talking or social skills can bring your whole entire persona to the ground

(you js literally have to grow out of you past self best way to put it)
 

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honestly i used to be a full introvert now i would say i like hanging out with ppl more then i did in the past but i will say i still do feel sometimes that something is off but yes being not natrually gifted with talking or social skills can bring your whole entire persona to the ground

(you js literally have to be better than your past self best way to put it)
In the first 4 grades of school i literally had 0 friends and on breaks i was just staying at my desk with my head on it like a npc
 
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In the first 4 grades of school i literally had 0 friends and on breaks i was just staying at my desk with my head on it like a npc
yeah weve all had theese moments bro ive had ppl ik forever not even talk with me in the hallways bro its literally yourself that has to make the change to actaully become better with social skills etc
 

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yes but the looks and the way the body language of someone with great social skills gets catogorized as = chrasima

saying ts from a perspective with my dad being this person mf can talk to anyone for hours js about anything because of what i listed
My english teacher does the same for example, he starts talking about an event from his life and he keeps continuing till the lesson stops like bro where do you get all those stories and words to tell all that, and there is another guy in my class that can tell about a thing he did but the discussion is long and everyone is listening with attention to him
 
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My english teacher does the same for example, he starts talking about an event from his life and he keeps continuing till the lesson stops like bro where do you get all those stories and words to tell all that, and there is another guy in my class that can tell about a thing he did but the discussion is long and everyone is listening with attention to him
literaly js time and picking up things like reading a room and what not js gotta pay attention and js go with it thats what i do and its helped a shit ton like js doing shit yyou would never do also helps or did with me
 

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