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Discussion Why I’m leaving looksmaxxing and why you should too (1 Viewer)

Discussion Why I’m leaving looksmaxxing and why you should too

Endo

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I think I’ve come to realise looks matter a lot but the emphasis on hitting the standards of this community of autists is silly. Learn that the average person isn’t stupidly good looking and our relativity is massively skewed. The average person has many flaws and they will not notice it on you beside hair body fat and height. Learn to embrace normality.
 

ineedbones

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Looksmaxxing is not about embracing normality its literally in the name its about looking as attractive as you can be
 

Dnr_Ethnic

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bye i aint leaving tho
 

Endo

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Looksmaxxing is not about embracing normality its literally in the name its about looking as attractive as you can be
Not a bad idea but understand self obsession is also self destruction. Inner peace is worth as much as looks. Both are very important
 

ineedbones

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Not a bad idea but understand self obsession is also self destruction. Inner peace is worth as much as looks. Both are very important
True that
 

Endo

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True that
I’ve experienced it, I got told I looked good and it wasn’t enough or it was false etc. it’s a constant loop of improvement that has to stop at some point and you WILL mentally deteriorate. People don’t really pick up on things anywhere near as much as you think.
 

ineedbones

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I’ve experienced it, I got told I looked good and it wasn’t enough or it was false etc. it’s a constant loop of improvement that has to stop at some point and you WILL mentally deteriorate. People don’t really pick up on things anywhere near as much as you think.
I think you just have to accept that your looks have a ceiling and once you reach it just enjoy life but the thing is lot of us are nd and grew up without love and nothing will change that i prefer to rot here sometimes over hanging out with people
 

jflnicas

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i lowk agree with u but no need to quit the community
 

Chakiyo

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agree with you to an extent. also when i go to public malls everyones at least twice as good looking as me and i feel like i don't fit in, but that might just be being insecure (2%)
 

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I think I’ve come to realise looks matter a lot but the emphasis on hitting the standards of this community of autists is silly. Learn that the average person isn’t stupidly good looking and our relativity is massively skewed. The average person has many flaws and they will not notice it on you beside hair body fat and height. Learn to embrace normality.
ideally we all titrate out of this space, for me it will probably be with gym and hopefully when im making more money i will have more things to do and eventually forget abt it
 

B63548

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I think I’ve come to realise looks matter a lot but the emphasis on hitting the standards of this community of autists is silly. Learn that the average person isn’t stupidly good looking and our relativity is massively skewed. The average person has many flaws and they will not notice it on you beside hair body fat and height. Learn to embrace normality.
Looksmaxxing is stupid and only useful for yourself

Youre either born chad or youre not, no surgery will replicate the natural chad look, charm and charisma
 

hatred&gasoline

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I think I’ve come to realise looks matter a lot but the emphasis on hitting the standards of this community of autists is silly. Learn that the average person isn’t stupidly good looking and our relativity is massively skewed. The average person has many flaws and they will not notice it on you beside hair body fat and height. Learn to embrace normality.
I’d rather kill myself
 

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