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how do i genuinely start talking to girls ?

rahcade

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title. its not ive never had a conversation with a girl. how do i start talking to a girl and make it last ?
 

Archangel Michael

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i'll make a thread based on this, give me a few hours
 

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If you watch porn, stop watching it immediately. Also, talk with girls who you feel are uglier than you first, and then slowly keep talking to more girls who look better than the last. This helps because you won’t be as intimidated by them if you are already. Don’t overthink it either, sometimes we think too much about what they’ll say back. Most of the time they won’t say anything rude or bad (they might think it though), and then you can start forming basic small talk with them like “How was your day?”
 

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If you watch porn, stop watching it immediately. Also, talk with girls who you feel are uglier than you first, and then slowly keep talking to more girls who look better than the last. This helps because you won’t be as intimidated by them if you are already. Don’t overthink it either, sometimes we think too much about what they’ll say back. Most of the time they won’t say anything rude or bad (they might think it though), and then you can start forming basic small talk with them like “How was your day?”
and do NOT mention that you are talking with girls around people you deem as not trustworthy such as jester friends, heavy mistake I did
 

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Why was it a mistake for you?
yeah was on talking stage w a ginger (same nationality as me!!!!) but I showed it the wrong dudes and yeah if you shittalked others you get shittalked to yk, and they started to make jokes which were like just gross detailed fetish shit and I lowkey started to develop hatred towards that ginger even tho she isn't at fault for it and I never talked with her (from my side) again
 

rahcade

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yeah was on talking stage w a ginger (same nationality as me!!!!) but I showed it the wrong dudes and yeah if you shittalked others you get shittalked to yk, and they started to make jokes which were like just gross detailed fetish shit and I lowkey started to develop hatred towards that ginger even tho she isn't at fault for it and I never talked with her (from my side) again
yea ive heard watching porn doesnt help with approaching women
 

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title. its not ive never had a conversation with a girl. how do i start talking to a girl and make it last ?
All about you enjoying the convo if you make yourself laugh they often will too don't simp and make sure they laugh as it lowers anxiety learn to talk about nothing which refers to not needing a specific topic of conversation or being able to make one with the little information you have as you want to avoid interview style and you really dont care about her dogs name I just recomend you learn to get comfarble with girls before learning game or manipulation. Remember having a sharp jawline and and hunteer eyes make it easier
 

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title. its not ive never had a conversation with a girl. how do i start talking to a girl and make it last ?
Not the best place to ask for advice around women :banderas:. Honestly? Be yourself, theres little to nothing else u can do
 
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