Discussion How often do you desire a companion/want company in life? (SCHIZO POST) (1 Viewer)

[Dexter]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

 

[FS51]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Or if you do, be extremely cautious. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

I have like 2 close irl friends and I don’t really feel the need to make anymore than that tbh, going to parties and socialising with randoms is literally pointless imo

 

[Dexter]

I have like 2 close irl friends and I don’t really feel the need to make anymore than that tbh, going to parties and socialising with randoms is literally pointless imo

based

 

[filthylittleslut]

i dont really have anyone as of right now i haven't even been to school in 6 months, let alone see anyone or communicate with anyone

 

[hoodsickle]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Or if you do, be extremely cautious. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

I used to always yearn for someone, to be cared for, loved. I guess my self esteem just got so low i dont see myself as deserving of a partner anymore; though i dont feel lonely or like im missing a part of me anymore.

At school im in a friend group but none of them are really my "friends" I dont go out with them nor text them, mostly because they dont text me.
I kinda hate people though. Everyone has different opinions about me and wether they openly say or not im constantly judged. I just do everything alone and im not bothered by it.
I guess I just found peace in solitude.

 

[Scorpion]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Or if you do, be extremely cautious. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

Not a schizonigga but read every molecule

 

[sensitive sapphire]

I feel the same way, the only times i feel comfortable and in peace are when im alone wich is 95% of the time. the only thing i disagree with is the sex part, i dont want a relationship i dont believe in love but i would like to have sex and be a manwhore

 

[sensitive sapphire]

I used to always yearn for someone, to be cared for, loved. I guess my self esteem just got so low i dont see myself as deserving of a partner anymore; though i dont feel lonely or like im missing a part of me anymore.

At school im in a friend group but none of them are really my "friends" I dont go out with them nor text them, mostly because they dont text me.
I kinda hate people though. Everyone has different opinions about me and wether they openly say or not im constantly judged. I just do everything alone and im not bothered by it.
I guess I just found peace in solitude.

I used to have the judging problem too and to some extenct i still do, the solution is not opening up to anyone. The only person i could relate to and even somewhat call a "friend" changed so much that i have love/hate relationship with him now

 

[𝔪𝔦𝔯𝔦𝔫𝔠𝔯𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔦𝔞𝔫]

good post, a couple more like these and i bet you'll get modded one day

 

[Hauptmann]

I have given up

 

[mod]

can you approve my alt? mr dexter 1 1ㅤㅤ

 

[Dexter]

the only thing i disagree with is the sex part, i dont want a relationship i dont believe in love but i would like to have sex and be a manwhore

why?
i have never understood the need to have sex so much/have sex with multiple people
seems like unnecessary emotional baggage

 

[Dexter]

can you approve my alt? mr dexter 1 1ㅤㅤ

Syna

 

[mod]

Syna

thanks

 

[hippocamp]

i dont really have anyone as of right now i haven't even been to school in 6 months, let alone see anyone or communicate with anyone

you have me silly

 

[sensitive sapphire]

why?
i have never understood the need to have sex so much/have sex with multiple people
seems like unnecessary emotional baggage

why doas it have to be emotional?

 

[Hyporoxin]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

My whole life, I have been completely alone, so I’ve always wanted to know what it’s like to have friends/girlfriend

I never really desired being around people, in some way i even enjoyed being alone. But over the past year I’ve started to truly hate the loneliness. I would be happy with just 2–4 friends and a girlfriend. that’s all I need

I see relationships as something important, especially for us humans. It’s instinctive to look for a long-term partner, and it’s nice to have someone like that.

 

[paracelsus]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

Yeah my sitiation is pretty similar to you, I have quite a lot of friends but in terms of a partner i don’t really like the idea because I don’t like sharing my thoughts (in terms of like goals or how i’m feeling) in general even to my closest mates so why would i then tell everything about myself to a girl who i wouldn’t know very well at first and who cannot be trusted as well as my friends.
And no i’m not ugly or a social outcast this is not cope genuinely

 

[Pxverr]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

i feel like rn getting a girl is a waste of time that could be spent bettering myself

 

[Doc]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

Facts .

 

[inertia]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

Agree except for parties, they sound a bit fun tbh

 

[sheepceLlover]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

I'd like a wife one day, obv for the romantic stuff, but also how its like to raise cattle with the love of ur life, (yes i will be primarily raising sheep)

 

[Dexter]

I'd like a wife one day, obv for the romantic stuff, but also how its like to raise cattle with the love of ur life, (yes i will be primarily raising sheep)

you mean youd raise sheep with your wife?
lol thatd be fun

 

[sheepceLlover]

you mean youd raise sheep with your wife?
lol thatd be fun

haha, forgot to clarify that, but yeah, if not sheep, most definitely cows and chickens

 

[Dexter]

haha, forgot to clarify that, but yeah, if not sheep, most definitely cows and chickens

if i had to get married, being with a woman that genuinely enjoys doing that would be perfect. tbh being friendly with animals says a lot about a person

 

[atrophicpyra]

Title.

Do you all go out of your way to make new friends?
Is there some need you all feel to have a companion in your life, like a girlfriend or a wife?

I have friends. 5 of them. But i have never gone out of my way to make new friends for some reason. I don't really care if i have a partner or not. No, i am not gay, retards, i am attracted to women, but i couldn't care less about me having a girlfriend or not. No, i am not ugly.

Literally everyone i know has expressed some sort of frustration (some very less, some a lot) about being single. I know people who are envious of others because they are in relationships. I often feel confused as to WHAT this frustration is about, like why do you care if you're in relationship or not? Me personally, i wouldn't mind being single all my life, but i also wouldn't mind getting married. Not that I go out of my way and try dating, I don't. Neither do i feel like = "if I can't find a partner, my life will be over.". Also i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

YES LMAO THIS IS WHAT I MEAN

just hire prostitutes to fuck stop being in relationships it’s 2026 just get an Amazon flesh light instead of hooking up with random bitches in parties with hiv and stds it’s so retarded

Want kids? Adopt one, donate your sperm to increase ur gene tree if that’s ur concern, what’s the point in interacting with unpredictable retards

 

[Dexter]

YES LMAO THIS IS WHAT I MEAN

just hire prostitutes to fuck stop being in relationships it’s 2026 just get an Amazon flesh light instead of hooking up with random bitches in parties with hiv and stds it’s so retarded

Want kids? Adopt one, donate your sperm to increase ur gene tree if that’s ur concern, what’s the point in interacting with unpredictable retards

son

 

[atrophicpyra]

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son

Nvm you don’t get it

One day all you niggas will evolve and realize we r in 2026 and not caveman times, once you do, women will replace back people and slavery will come back, women will be so useless they will be whipped and farmed not even useful enough to creampie in

 

[FS51]

Nvm you don’t get it

One day all you niggas will evolve and realize we r in 2026 and not caveman times, once you do, women will replace back people and slavery will come back, women will be so useless they will be whipped and farmed not even useful enough to creampie in

 

[Nardicus]

Having a GF is maintenance,
Have to spend money
Have to sit on the phone for 2 hours before bed
Have to drive around
Have buy her gifts
Have to worry about if she's talking or snapping other guys
Have to not act insecure
Have to okay with her going out
Have to be okay with her posting how she want's to
Have share location and constantly text back

Most men dont want to do any of these things, but still do them due to scarcity that they have no one else to have sex with.

Every CL-ChaD slayer I know, hate's the idea of being in a relationship cause they know they can get what they want without the CoN's I mentioned

Not to mention, i also don't understand socializing everyday and going to parties and all. Seems excessive and reckless. Parties are just crowded rooms full of people pretending to be someone else for four hours. I don't understand this need to feel desired by others as well.

FOMO and Women

Most slay's are achieved via parties from 16-19, after that its social media take over.


OP's Estrodial is either low, Or hes ND to the point social interactions dont stimulate him

lso i hate it when people date/sleep around recklessly, break up multiple times, overall have a messy social life, then cry into their drinks whining about how their ex manipulated them. Dude i will never understand that. It is literally SO easy to not have this emotional baggage, just don't engage in this stuff? It's that easy. Recklessness is what fucks people up.

Because the Pro's out weigh the cons when going into it
You get Oxytocin and Dopamine release from hanging with said individuals, which feels good internally. You dont expect what will happen to happen, but sometimes that release of said hormones is so good that the cons dont matter at the moment until they hit.

 

[Nardicus]

I have like 2 close irl friends and I don’t really feel the need to make anymore than that tbh, going to parties and socialising with randoms is literally pointless imo

This is not a based take at all,

You only have one window to do this in life, so missing out on said window because its "pointless" is kinda cope
It's okay to have Anxiety but dont let reinforce thoughts you dont actually really think to feel better about missing out.
Dancing with a MTB-HTB with 0-4 bodies and its y'all first time together experiencing this is not something u will ever be able to replicate later in life

Missing out on slay potentials because its pointless would also mean looksmaxing is pointless

 

[Nardicus]

i feel like rn getting a girl is a waste of time that could be spent bettering myself

It takes one hour for chad to drive/walk there n slay n go about his day

 

[jousefrzu]

It takes one hour for chad to drive/walk there n slay n go about his day

Yo how has your gymcell arc been so far

 

[Nardicus]

Yo how has your gymcell arc been so far

Been amazing,
Currently sitting at 11% BF
so sending ab pics n muscle pics under downlighting thirst traps to LTB"s has been boosting my ego making me feel good
Tren is also helping heavily as well
Hair n Skin still intact even on a gram of test so id say its going pretty good

 

[jousefrzu]

Been amazing,
Currently sitting at 11% BF
so sending ab pics n muscle pics under downlighting thirst traps to LTB"s has been boosting my ego making me feel good
Tren is also helping heavily as well
Hair n Skin still intact even on a gram of test so id say its going pretty good

Mirin Bhai if I get jacked lowk need to thirst trap ltbs aswell and the hair even intact couldn’t be going better

 

[Pxverr]

It takes one hour for chad to drive/walk there n slay n go about his day

sadly WE ARE not chads

 

[Dexter]

Having a GF is maintenance,
Have to spend money
Have to sit on the phone for 2 hours before bed
Have to drive around
Have buy her gifts
Have to worry about if she's talking or snapping other guys
Have to not act insecure
Have to okay with her going out
Have to be okay with her posting how she want's to
Have share location and constantly text back

Most men dont want to do any of these things, but still do them due to scarcity that they have no one else to have sex with.

Every CL-ChaD slayer I know, hate's the idea of being in a relationship cause they know they can get what they want without the CoN's I mentioned


FOMO and Women

Most slay's are achieved via parties from 16-19, after that its social media take over.


OP's Estrodial is either low, Or hes ND to the point social interactions dont stimulate him

Because the Pro's out weigh the cons when going into it
You get Oxytocin and Dopamine release from hanging with said individuals, which feels good internally. You dont expect what will happen to happen, but sometimes that release of said hormones is so good that the cons dont matter at the moment until they hit.

yeah i knew it

as much as we agree on literally everything else, this is the one thing we probably wont agree on, like ever

why does this difference even exist? brain chemistry? difference in childhood upbringing? type of friend group? because i think you and i are the polar opposites in this case

 

[FS51]

This is not a based take at all,

You only have one window to do this in life, so missing out on said window because its "pointless" is kinda cope
It's okay to have Anxiety but dont let reinforce thoughts you dont actually really think to feel better about missing out.
Dancing with a MTB-HTB with 0-4 bodies and its y'all first time together experiencing this is not something u will ever be able to replicate later in life

Missing out on slay potentials because its pointless would also mean looksmaxing is pointless

Slaying feels kinda pointless for me and I used to have quite bad social anxiety and even though its a lot better now I would rather just stay with the same close friend group