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Venting how to possibly fit in as a sub 5 ND (1 Viewer)

Venting how to possibly fit in as a sub 5 ND

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i am hella ND with most people aside from my close friends, and subsequently, because i am sub 5 i get humiliated from almost all people i meet.
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i am hella ND with most people aside from my close friends, and subsequently, because i am sub 5 i get humiliated from almost all people i meet.
please help.
u would have to keep masking and like get better at it overtime but its not that easy u will have loads of cannon events
 

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u would have to keep masking and like get better at it overtime but its not that easy u will have loads of cannon events
yeah bro it gets better
i think everyone as said this at one point rarely is the case jfl
 
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yeah bro it gets better
i think everyone as said this at one point rarely is the case jfl
worked for me tho although it took years and i have not completely mastered it yet
 

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my advice would be to attempt to ascend as hard as possible its an easier than masking your autism
you've stated in a previous post you were obese so you could ascend relatively easy it will probably have a larger impact on your life than just masking nt
 

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my advice would be to attempt to ascend as hard as possible its an easier than masking your autism
you've stated in a previous post you were obese so you could ascend relatively easy it will probably have a larger impact on your life than just masking nt
u have a point tho u should ascend first then mask if its needed
 
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i am hella ND with most people aside from my close friends, and subsequently, because i am sub 5 i get humiliated from almost all people i meet.
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damn rip, just cope and maybe do cycle n gym
 

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and you have a normal social life? sure....
depends on the level of autism. some people will be albe to to have a soild social life theres to many confounding variables to make a black and white statement like that
 
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not ideal but probably the easiest outcome
Probably one of the best advice you'll ever get, dont be a chud, fuck the criticism just work your way up through, your a chad to me
 

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depends on the level of autism. some people will be albe to to have a soild social life theres to many confounding variables to make a black and white statement like that
if its to the point where you have to "mask" it, its bad enough, unsalvageable
 

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depends on the level of autism. some people will be albe to to have a soild social life theres to many confounding variables to make a black and white statement like that
if ur below high functioning its basically impossible to fit into society without worker help
 

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Probably one of the best advice you'll ever get, dont be a chud, fuck the criticism just work your way up through, your a chad to me
i agree but gymceling isn't the best way to improve yourself coming from an ex gymcel
 

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if ur below high functioning its basically impossible to fit into society without worker help
my point, anyone with slight autism is obviously fine, but if you're like actually autistic theres no saving you
 
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if its to the point where you have to "mask" it, its bad enough, unsalvageable
are u just mad someone with autism can have a social life while u dont?
 

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I promise my role in the social hierarchy mogs yours
ok buddy then u have better things to do right instead of trying to prove me wrong?
 

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i agree but gymceling isn't the best way to improve yourself coming from an ex gymcel
can u send me a picture of your face any .gg user will probably give you some advice on what to do
 
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if its to the point where you have to "mask" it, its bad enough, unsalvageable
not necessary even high functioning people might want to mask there autism just because there insecure
 

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can u send me a picture of your face any .gg user will probably give you some advice on what to do
is this directed to me or the guy who posted the thread?
 

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not necessary even high functioning people might want to mask there autism just because there insecure
that wouldn't even make sense?

if its not obvious to society that they're autistic where would they get their insecurity from, insecurity is developed through bullying, if the average civilian wasn't aware of said persons autism, they wouldn't develop insecurities.
 

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not necessary even high functioning people might want to mask there autism just because there insecure
I dont wear mask becuase when some one grab that shit and just run away, people will laugh at you, its better than not to use a mask *Ltn experience btw*
 
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that wouldn't even make sense?

if its not obvious to society that they're autistic where would they get their insecurity from, insecurity is developed through bullying, if the average civilian wasn't aware of said persons autism, they wouldn't develop insecurities.
people know i have autism and they dont give a shit i just get along with everyone
 

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that wouldn't even make sense?

if its not obvious to society that they're autistic where would they get their insecurity from, insecurity is developed through bullying, if the average civilian wasn't aware of said persons autism, they wouldn't develop insecurities.
thats a fair point i have no conter arguement
 

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people know i have autism and they dont give a shit i just get along with everyone
ik a kid like that at my school, he thinks he's friends with everyone but gets bullied behind his back

(autistic btw)

i wonder if ur him 🤔
 

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ik a kid like that at my school, he thinks he's friends with everyone but gets bullied behind his back

(autistic btw)

i wonder if ur him 🤔
im not some random kid from ur school bud i have been through bullying in primary and its long over now and i have real friends
 

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ik a kid like that at my school, he thinks he's friends with everyone but gets bullied behind his back

(autistic btw)

i wonder if ur him 🤔
that's genuinely cruel
 

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I dont wear mask becuase when some one grab that shit and just run away, people will laugh at you, its better than not to use a mask *Ltn experience btw*
not a literal mask bro
 

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im not some random kid from ur school bud i have been through bullying in primary and its long over now and i have real friends
good for you seeing others doing good makes me happy
 
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from the guy who posted the thread, i accidentally press reply to your post
sorry bro dont think i can i want to keep anon until i atleast become mltn, it wouldnt matter anyway since i have face fat so it would be difficult to tell which improvements i would need until im ~25% body fat
 

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not really, its reality
yeah i know, but thats like so mean, I've never experienced that shit becuase im a chill ass guy that only goes to school on friday, every week
 
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yeah i know, but thats like so mean, I've never experienced that shit becuase im a chill ass guy that only goes to school on friday, every week
how do u manage that
 

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