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Theory Hypergamy is lie

Amrst

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here is my brief explanation why I think hypergamy is lie

The Paradox:
So Even when men prioritize looks and women prioritize status, the end result is almost always homogamy (matching with your own tier)

The Math: If a high status man (Tier 1) marries a lower-status but highly attractive woman (Tier 2 status, Tier 1 looks), he has effectively "married down" in status and married up in looks.

The Catch: This means a high-status woman (Tier 1) also has to marry down to a man who is lower in status but has higher physical appeal to match her own attractiveness.

So even if the women has lower status but higher looks : her overall value and combined desirability would equal to the overall values of the man.

This would eliminate hypergamy and would efficiently create homogamy

Let me know what yall think
 

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here is my brief explanation why I think hypergamy is lie

The Paradox:
So Even when men prioritize looks and women prioritize status, the end result is almost always homogamy (matching with your own tier)

The Math: If a high status man (Tier 1) marries a lower-status but highly attractive woman (Tier 2 status, Tier 1 looks), he has effectively "married down" in status and married up in looks.

The Catch: This means a high-status woman (Tier 1) also has to marry down to a man who is lower in status but has higher physical appeal to match her own attractiveness.

So even if the women has lower status but higher looks : her overall value and combined desirability would equal to the overall values of the man.

This would eliminate hypergamy and would efficiently create homogamy

Let me know what yall think
 

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here is my brief explanation why I think hypergamy is lie

The Paradox:
So Even when men prioritize looks and women prioritize status, the end result is almost always homogamy (matching with your own tier)

The Math: If a high status man (Tier 1) marries a lower-status but highly attractive woman (Tier 2 status, Tier 1 looks), he has effectively "married down" in status and married up in looks.

The Catch: This means a high-status woman (Tier 1) also has to marry down to a man who is lower in status but has higher physical appeal to match her own attractiveness.

So even if the women has lower status but higher looks : her overall value and combined desirability would equal to the overall values of the man.

This would eliminate hypergamy and would efficiently create homogamy

Let me know what yall think
I suggest you go and do some research on what hypergamy actually is, this is a completely incorrect interpretation
 
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bro what? hypergamy only occurs when dating

women marry the beta nerds once they are done getting fucked by chads
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Amrst

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I suggest you go and do some research on what hypergamy actually is, this is a completely incorrect interpretation
I know what hypergamy is nigga it makes sense if u see it from a perspective where we combine looks and status low looks+ high status is the same overall value as high looks and lower status hypergamy is the sexual dating market value of a country or city so when women want highly successful men and lower attractive mem and men want highly attractive women but don’t care about succes this would give them the same values and make it homogamy
 
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here is my brief explanation why I think hypergamy is lie

The Paradox:
So Even when men prioritize looks and women prioritize status, the end result is almost always homogamy (matching with your own tier)

The Math: If a high status man (Tier 1) marries a lower-status but highly attractive woman (Tier 2 status, Tier 1 looks), he has effectively "married down" in status and married up in looks.

The Catch: This means a high-status woman (Tier 1) also has to marry down to a man who is lower in status but has higher physical appeal to match her own attractiveness.

So even if the women has lower status but higher looks : her overall value and combined desirability would equal to the overall values of the man.

This would eliminate hypergamy and would efficiently create homogamy

Let me know what yall think
Idc I just want a polish girl to abuse me :woo:
 

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