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Discussion I don’t wanna be kind anymore

noinssi

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Hey gng, ngl I’m tired of being so submissive with people I can’t even go somewhere alone without calling someone to come with me. I hate being alone, and whenever someone asks me for something I literally can’t say no, but they say NO to me like 100 times before.


I wanna learn how to be more independent, stop being such a people pleaser, actually say no, put myself first, and just be comfortable going places and doing shit alone.


Any tips/advice? Or maybe a thread or some videos that talk about this?
 

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Bump
 

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Bumpp
 

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Just say no and be rude to niggas when they just use you
 

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I really hope bots replace humans
 

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I really hope bots replace humans
imagine the sex dolls in 50 years
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Hey gng, ngl I’m tired of being so submissive with people I can’t even go somewhere alone without calling someone to come with me. I hate being alone, and whenever someone asks me for something I literally can’t say no, but they say NO to me like 100 times before.


I wanna learn how to be more independent, stop being such a people pleaser, actually say no, put myself first, and just be comfortable going places and doing shit alone.


Any tips/advice? Or maybe a thread or some videos that talk about this?
You just do it man, Theres no Advice you need determination, You can be Nice but you need to keep the line strict so people dont view you as submissive, You must think for you beforehand and then decide for others if not, just make up some random excuse which must be plausible, optimal would be that its something Very Reasonable or Emotional so people with think high of you
 

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Hey gng, ngl I’m tired of being so submissive with people I can’t even go somewhere alone without calling someone to come with me. I hate being alone, and whenever someone asks me for something I literally can’t say no, but they say NO to me like 100 times before.


I wanna learn how to be more independent, stop being such a people pleaser, actually say no, put myself first, and just be comfortable going places and doing shit alone.


Any tips/advice? Or maybe a thread or some videos that talk about this?
Maybe you should take a stance, finding your self-respect is a huge step. Walk away from those who're not seeing you as you, talk to those who cherish you and check up on you because they're worth keeping. You don't have to completely ignore them, but make small talk, then leave it be. In life, there will be people who are not worth investing in.
You just do it man, Theres no Advice you need determination, You can be Nice but you need to keep the line strict so people dont view you as submissive, You must think for you beforehand and then decide for others if not, just make up some random excuse which must be plausible, optimal would be that its something Very Reasonable or Emotional so people with think high of you
I, too, agree.
 

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Hey gng, ngl I’m tired of being so submissive with people I can’t even go somewhere alone without calling someone to come with me. I hate being alone, and whenever someone asks me for something I literally can’t say no, but they say NO to me like 100 times before.


I wanna learn how to be more independent, stop being such a people pleaser, actually say no, put myself first, and just be comfortable going places and doing shit alone.


Any tips/advice? Or maybe a thread or some videos that talk about this?
Idk. Be my submissive femboy
 

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Hey gng, ngl I’m tired of being so submissive with people I can’t even go somewhere alone without calling someone to come with me. I hate being alone, and whenever someone asks me for something I literally can’t say no, but they say NO to me like 100 times before.


I wanna learn how to be more independent, stop being such a people pleaser, actually say no, put myself first, and just be comfortable going places and doing shit alone.


Any tips/advice? Or maybe a thread or some videos that talk about this?
Low t nd behavior
 

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Hey gng, ngl I’m tired of being so submissive with people I can’t even go somewhere alone without calling someone to come with me. I hate being alone, and whenever someone asks me for something I literally can’t say no, but they say NO to me like 100 times before.


I wanna learn how to be more independent, stop being such a people pleaser, actually say no, put myself first, and just be comfortable going places and doing shit alone.


Any tips/advice? Or maybe a thread or some videos that talk about this?
start putting yourself above others
 

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start putting yourself above others
you are afraid to hurt others but you're hurting yourself twin. Just do what you want to do and don't look at the opinions of others
 

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