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Venting It's over for my social life

gqq

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since I was as young as 8 I had extreme issues trying to talk to people,it honestly just gets worse and worse everytime someone tries to talk to me I just back out to avoid future problems,I've had exactly 2 friends in my whole school and even then I think they talk to me out of pity because none of them try reaching out to me after school,my online life is literally even more embarrassing I'm in a group chat of 20 people and they all chose to selectively ignore me for whatever reason,I don't even remember doing anything they just decided to ignore me

I decided to cope by buying a cat to maybe make me feel better but no use they mostly sit around other family members in the house

this isn't js a vent post if you got advice or tips to help me socialize more id appreciate it thanks
 
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since I was as young as 8 I had extreme issues trying to talk to people,it honestly just gets worse and worse everytime someone tries to talk to me I just back out to avoid future problems,I've had exactly 2 friends in my whole school and even then I think they talk to me out of pity because none of them try reaching out to me after school,my online life is literally even more embarrassing I'm in a group chat of 20 people and they all chose to selectively ignore me for whatever reason,I don't even remember doing anything they just decided to ignore me

I decided to cope by buying a cat to maybe make me feel better but no use they mostly sit around other family members in the house

this isn't js a vent post if you got advice or tips to help me socialize more id appreciate it thanks
You are either ugly or act like a creep
 

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i guess
 
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Jfljfljfl

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Same thought it was because I wasn’t attractive but still can’t talk to girls :feelsrope:don’t even talk to people outside school
 
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gqq

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since I was as young as 8 I had extreme issues trying to talk to people,it honestly just gets worse and worse everytime someone tries to talk to me I just back out to avoid future problems,I've had exactly 2 friends in my whole school and even then I think they talk to me out of pity because none of them try reaching out to me after school,my online life is literally even more embarrassing I'm in a group chat of 20 people and they all chose to selectively ignore me for whatever reason,I don't even remember doing anything they just decided to ignore me

I decided to cope by buying a cat to maybe make me feel better but no use they mostly sit around other family members in the house

this isn't js a vent post if you got advice or tips to help me socialize more id appreciate it thanks
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you focus to much on other peoples opinions of you, quit caring and start improving yourself, the rest will (probably) come to you instead.
 
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since I was as young as 8 I had extreme issues trying to talk to people,it honestly just gets worse and worse everytime someone tries to talk to me I just back out to avoid future problems,I've had exactly 2 friends in my whole school and even then I think they talk to me out of pity because none of them try reaching out to me after school,my online life is literally even more embarrassing I'm in a group chat of 20 people and they all chose to selectively ignore me for whatever reason,I don't even remember doing anything they just decided to ignore me

I decided to cope by buying a cat to maybe make me feel better but no use they mostly sit around other family members in the house

this isn't js a vent post if you got advice or tips to help me socialize more id appreciate it thanks
I am ignored by everyone irl I'm in the same situation as you although online i have my fellow brocels on discord ❤️‍🩹

Anyways yeah the reason I'm khhv without a talking stage at 16 is cuz of not being social at all idk I tried to but it doesn't work out
 
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Mtnrose

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What TheAlphaMale TheAlphaMale said. What do you mean by “to avoid future problems”. JFL that’s life bro quit trying to be comfortable and try something new; new hobby, new anime club or whatever the fuck you are into, go to the gym. You’re in COLLEGE buddy, time to grow the fuck up and talk to people or you will live THE REST of your chud life in quiet desperation.

With love.

Remember it’s never over brother…
 

gqq

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What TheAlphaMale TheAlphaMale said. What do you mean by “to avoid future problems”. JFL that’s life bro quit trying to be comfortable and try something new; new hobby, new anime club or whatever the fuck you are into, go to the gym. You’re in COLLEGE buddy, time to grow the fuck up and talk to people or you will live THE REST of your chud life in quiet desperation.

With love.

Remember it’s never over brother…
I'm 15
 
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