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My crush stopped talking to me
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your both high inhib, she lost interest cuz she thought you werent interested. men are expected to make the first move no question.
Yeah, true. I hesitated too much and she probably thought I didn’t care. I get it now. Next time I’ll be more direct so things are clear.
 

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no. that isnt the move, you waited too long, wait a week or 2, try and understand the vibe. if you feel it again go for it 100%, but you cant rip that off like a bandaid
ye your right bro :kim:
 
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no. that isnt the move, you waited too long, wait a week or 2, try and understand the vibe. if you feel it again go for it 100%, but you cant rip that off like a bandaid
Yeah, makes sense. I get that doing it out of nowhere after months isn’t the move. If we ever talk again, I’ll take my time, read the vibe, and then go for it if it feels right.
 

evac

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Yeah, makes sense. I get that doing it out of nowhere after months isn’t the move. If we ever talk again, I’ll take my time, read the vibe, and then go for it if it feels right.
naw, dont even hesitate, if she wanted you at one point, her opinion of you hasn't changed too drastically, a method for high inhib's is to go ask one of her friends, like close friends, or maybe a mutual to put you on with her, see if she is still available, maybe you can find out if she still want's you. if you dont have time fo that, your gonna have to just go talk to her
 
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naw, dont even hesitate, if she wanted you at one point, her opinion of you hasn't changed too drastically, a method for high inhib's is to go ask one of her friends, like close friends, or maybe a mutual to put you on with her, see if she is still available, maybe you can find out if she still want's you. if you dont have time fo that, your gonna have to just go talk to her
Yeah, I get what you mean. If I ever get the chance, I might try asking a mutual friend first just to see where things stand. And if not, I’ll just go talk to her directly. Thanks for the advice, bro.
 
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fairs id such do what the other guy said, i personally would move on, but if u feel its right, sure
Yeah, I get that. I’m kinda leaning towards moving on too, but if I ever feel like it’s really the right moment, I might give it a shot. Thanks bro.
 

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Yeah, I get that. I’m kinda leaning towards moving on too, but if I ever feel like it’s really the right moment, I might give it a shot. Thanks bro.
no, you have to stop hesitating, my word means nothing cause your probably not gonna listen, but try and insert yourself back into her life. end goal of the year is to bag her
 
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no, you have to stop hesitating, my word means nothing cause your probably not gonna listen, but try and insert yourself back into her life. end goal of the year is to bag her
I get your point, but disappearing for months changes things. If an opportunity comes up, I’ll take it, but I’m not gonna try to force my way back into her life.
 

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