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Theory The personality paradox (1 Viewer)

Theory The personality paradox

Truegolfer25

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As we all know personality has never truly mattered as much as people say it does but maybe now cause of the gaslighting on social media. Let me explain what I mean, Woman in their mind don’t believe personality matter that much even if they say they do but now cause of social media presence of all these woman saying about how much personality matters it’s kind of flipping a switch in woman’s minds to make them believe personality actually does matter. So it’s kind of a paradox of personality matters so little that woman are convincing themselves it matters which in turn actually convinces them it matter. This is just a theory and obviously looks still matter more but idk it was just a thought I had.
 

sunsetupallnight

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Not to sound like some redpill bs, but mindset matters more than personality. I mean having a winning, stable mindset is more important than being kind or any feel good nonsense like that. Just dontbealosermax
 

Truegolfer25

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Not to sound like some redpill bs, but mindset matters more than personality. I mean having a winning, stable mindset is more important than being kind or any feel good nonsense like that. Just dontbealosermax
I don’t want to argue but I politely disagree cause I feel like they kind of blend together their not really in their own distinct category
 

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As we all know personality has never truly mattered as much as people say it does but maybe now cause of the gaslighting on social media. Let me explain what I mean, Woman in their mind don’t believe personality matter that much even if they say they do but now cause of social media presence of all these woman saying about how much personality matters it’s kind of flipping a switch in woman’s minds to make them believe personality actually does matter. So it’s kind of a paradox of personality matters so little that woman are convincing themselves it matters which in turn actually convinces them it matter. This is just a theory and obviously looks still matter more but idk it was just a thought I had.
they'll do this and end up giving an ugly dude a chance and then dump him in 2 weeks for a dude that looks good
 

Truegolfer25

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they'll do this and end up giving an ugly dude a chance and then dump him in 2 weeks for a dude that looks good
I was going to mention this at the end cause this happens a lot but at least the ugly guy gets a chance and maybe some play if your lucky it wasn’t like this before
 

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I was going to mention this at the end cause this happens a lot but at least the ugly guy gets a chance and maybe some play if your lucky it wasn’t like this before
even then you're lucky if it even happens to you
 

Truegolfer25

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even then you're lucky if it even happens to you
You never know sometimes all the ugly needs is a chance and occasionally but very rarely the girl will stay with him this rarely happens but it does
 

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