Women in Looksmax Spaces (1 Viewer)

[ltbs1ayer]

I’ve been thinking about the role of women in looksmaxing spaces, and I just want to say I don’t dislike women, and I’m not saying they can’t looksmax they literally can, but theres a difference between looksmaxing and being like a part of this space like forums.

Looksmaxing forums is shaped by male experiences. For guys looksmaxing often comes from pressure and competiton. The dating market hits men and women differently, and concepts like hypergamy mean that men usually face a steeper climb when it comes to improving their attractiveness for dating.

Because of that, when women show up in these spaces, it sometimes feels like they’re not on the same stakes or motivations as us. A lot of the women who post here seem more like they’re observing socializing or just going into the community rather than actually living the same reality. They can come off as attention-seeking.

Again, this isn’t about gatekeeping. Women are welcome to participate. But I think it’s ok to know that most of the struggles anxieties and motivations behind looksmaxing are uniquely male, and that shapes the entire forum.

 

[hoodsickle]

I’ve been thinking about the role of women in looksmaxing spaces, and I just want to say I don’t dislike women, and I’m not saying they can’t looksmax they literally can, but theres a difference between looksmaxing and being like a part of this space like forums.

Looksmaxing forums is shaped by male experiences. For guys looksmaxing often comes from pressure and competiton. The dating market hits men and women differently, and concepts like hypergamy mean that men usually face a steeper climb when it comes to improving their attractiveness for dating.

Because of that, when women show up in these spaces, it sometimes feels like they’re not on the same stakes or motivations as us. A lot of the women who post here seem more like they’re observing socializing or just going into the community rather than actually living the same reality. They can come off as attention-seeking.

Again, this isn’t about gatekeeping. Women are welcome to participate. But I think it’s ok to know that most of the struggles anxieties and motivations behind looksmaxing are uniquely male, and that shapes the entire forum.

 

[Peace.2nd]

I agree and I’ve been thinking about this a lot and to me it doesn’t feel gender based it’s like more of a neuro thing/experience which sounds absolutely grey but listen

Half the people on here have something fucking wrong with them or just have some issue that they blame looks for, the other half are genuinely losing their mind from their looks and a minority are just nts trying to look better without relating to the psychological stuff.

Women who are on here wre more often than not just incapable of socialising, have a weird personality or just want to ascend for quality in relationships

Women in BP spaces (with the exception of asparagussy, more a tiktokcel if anything) are more often then not just incapable of socialising, have a weird personality or want to ascend to make up for their persona. Normal women in society who blend in and have friends will never enter this “corny space” because they’ll constantly have friends cheering them on in their comment sections and will never feel the need to do so because they haven’t experienced rejection before. Women tend to enter these spaces due to social rejection and self-esteem issues rather than trouble accepting someone below their league or pursuing other romantic relationships.

To be fair through, Romantically for both unattractive men and women, you’ll still pull, you’ll make friends but what are their intentions, will they treat you human or will you serve for the purpose of convenience?

Femcels don’t exist, incels do but 90% of people in this forum aren’t, if everyone lowered their standards to accept things like infidelity or ridiculous age gaps the dating market would be a lot easier for everyone, but obviously no one won’t because that’s a retarded cuck ass thing to do.

Everyone wants to improve their looks to ensure quality, Macken Murphy doesn’t even need to explain this, if you are clapped you will always be left for someone better if the chance was given regardless of your gender, that is significantly less likely to happen if you’re in the top 10%

Best case scenario:
If you’re a social reject-> date a social reject (no normal girl will be able to connect emotionally with you)
If you’re someone who values humanity and is social-> date someone who values humanity and gets along with others
If you’re someone whose extremely monogamous-> date someone who has loyalty as their core value

If you’re nd-> date someone who is and gets you

Everyone is capable of achieving sexual experience, it just depends if you value longevity