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Discussion How do you value yourself and others?

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Is it immoral to place love for others over yourself?

If you want to be loved, do you think you should correct your flaws (not physical) to deserve it, or do you think you inherently deserve love?

Do you help others out of virtue? Or to gain moral credit over yourself, where doing good deeds is a token, if you will, to later on use as a justification or excuse to do bad? (i.e., helping an old lady cross the street and later on insulting someone, using the good deeds as a merit, to condone what you've done)

How can someone be deserving of love if their behavior is viewed as immoral, even if their environment made them believe in the justification of their immoral behavior?
I believe I should be liked for what I am to people, what they think about me, even en if it is negative. In the same way I like people for what they have done to others and to themselves, bcz it can be a beneficial thing they could've done or a shallow thing.
 

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Never said that
I can commit strategic, pre-planned immoral acts
I just reject the cattle's definition of righteousness
then what is righteous to you? how can your idea of morals be objective? with no proof, then morals, just like your idea of being superior, are just an opinion
 

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then what is righteous to you? how can your idea of morals be objective?
Righteous is what I feel is righteous
I don't want cattle to agree with me, all that matters is my ability to enforce my will
Whether by manipulating, persuasion or by fear
Idc about morals jfl
I do what serves my interests
 

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Righteous is what I feel is righteous
I don't want cattle to agree with me, all that matters is my ability to enforce my will
Whether by manipulating, persuasion or by fear
Idc about morals jfl
I do what serves my interests
Respectable, do what you want, if it seems good to you then who am I say if you're wrong or right.
 

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love it when good discussion threads are made and only have 30 posts within an hour but then a shitpost thread has nearly 500 in 30 minutes
 

Chuck Yeager

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Righteous is what I feel is righteous
I don't want cattle to agree with me, all that matters is my ability to enforce my will
Whether by manipulating, persuasion or by fear
Idc about morals jfl
I do what serves my interests
then your idea of righteousness is an opinion, same with your idea of superiority
 

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Personality is mostly genetic
and children are literally selfish, their empathy is underdeveloped
Toddlers yes, they don't give a shit about the people they know, but with strangers they seem to be quiet and stop being mischievous. But pre-toddlers (idk the term) don't seem to be hateful and are curious about the world. ( Speaking from my experience from what Ive seen)
 

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Is it immoral to place love for others over yourself?

If you want to be loved, do you think you should correct your flaws (not physical) to deserve it, or do you think you inherently deserve love?

Do you help others out of virtue? Or to gain moral credit over yourself, where doing good deeds is a token, if you will, to later on use as a justification or excuse to do bad? (i.e., helping an old lady cross the street and later on insulting someone, using the good deeds as a merit, to condone what you've done)

How can someone be deserving of love if their behavior is viewed as immoral, even if their environment made them believe in the justification of their immoral behavior?
its not, why would it be?
 

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Toddlers yes, they don't give a shit about the people they know, but with strangers they seem to be quiet and stop being mischievous. But pre-toddlers (idk the term) don't seem to be hateful and are curious about the world. ( Speaking from my experience from what Ive seen)
Infants?
They don't even comprehend shit jfl
They're just instinctive
 

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Ethics debates are ass anyways next time make a metaphysics one
 

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